In season 4 of Sex and The City, the main characters talk about their “scary age”– basically the age they are afraid of and dreading for various reasons.
Everyone has their own scary age when it comes to life – details on mine are for another post! But when it comes to finances, 25 is definitely my scary age. And since I turned 24 a month ago, it’s quickly approaching.
Why 25 Scares Me
We’ve all seen those graphs in blog posts  and news articles  encouraging us to save at an early age, and showing us the difference between starting a savings plan at two ages – the younger age is ALWAYS 25. Many online retirement calculators  start at 25. What that means to me is that the years before 25 are freebies – you can mess up financially, and still have plenty of time to bounce back. But after 25, you need to save. And plan. And it all matters.
Since I graduated from college and started learning about personal finance , I’ve always been younger than 25. Even if I’m not doing things 100% correctly, I tell myself it’s ok because those were “bonus” years. But once I turn 25, the stakes (in my head at least) are just a little bit higher – and if I’m not saving enough, or choosing the right investments, or generally not making the “right” decisions, it could really have an impact down the road! So I need to learn more about investments, save a higher percentage of my paycheck, and knock out my student loan. When I think about doing all that and the financial ramifications of starting grad school and buying a house in the next few years, I can really work myself into a tizzy!
How I’ll Prepare
Here are some things I’ve already done or plan to do to combat my financial anxiety about turning 25:
- Earn side income above and beyond my normal paycheck, and use it to eliminate my student loan.
- Increase my Roth IRA/401(k) savings every time I get a raise. (Yes, you can have a 401k and an IRA at the same time .
- Create  my own “dollar plan” that maps out some mid- to long-term goals, and their financial ramifications.
- Create a long-term investment plan  with a target asset allocation and growth projections.
- Remember that 25 is just a number – good habits are the most important, and less-than-optimal saving or investing is better than none at all.
What it Means for You
I’m guessing that everyone has their own financial scary age. Maybe yours is the year you plan to retire. The years between your retirement and Medicare kicking in. The year you have a child, or the year your child starts college.
No matter what your financial scary age is, it’s probably tied to a certain event that you can plan for. So start now. Decide how much you need to save to meet a certain goal, how you can step up your debt elimination plan to get rid of payments sooner, or what kind of self-education you need to stay on the right track. Talk to your spouse or child, if applicable, and work together to combat some of the financial stressors in your life. Control what you can, and let go of the rest. Know that if you’re reading sites like this one, you’re probably ahead of a whole lot of people in similar situations.
And if all else fails, have an extra big piece of cake – and a few birthday freebies  -on the day of your scary-age birthday!
What’s your scary age, and what are you doing to prepare for it? Tell us in the comments!