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The Family CFO: The Couple's Business Plan for Love and Money Hardcover – January 17, 2004
It often happens when couples first consider moving in together or getting married, or when they're facing a major life decision such as buying a home or having children. Whether it happens sooner or later, though, finally taking control of your financial future is a huge step toward solidifying your relationship and realizing your shared dreams.
The Family CFO introduces couples to a personal-finance plan that turns managing your money into a romantic experience. By applying the tools and rules of the business world to minimize conflict and anxiety, you and your partner can focus on setting priorities and reaching goals instead of arguing over budgets. Then, after learning how to run the Family CFO system, you can work out personalized solutions to some of the biggest challenges couples face, including:
* Wresting control of debt
* Maintaining your lifestyle if one of you loses your job
* Deciding whether to change careers
* Arranging for one of you to stay at home with the kids.
In plain language illustrated with real couple's stories and supplemented with helpful worksheets, The Family CFO offers best family practices worthy of even the most accomplished chief financial officer. And as the authors well know and show, approaching your joint finances like a business can lead to a lifetime of shared pleasure.
- Print length288 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherRodale Books
- Publication dateJanuary 17, 2004
- Dimensions6 x 0.75 x 9 inches
- ISBN-101579547915
- ISBN-13978-1579547912
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“What a service the authors are providing for couples! The Family CFO is a fun and valuable tool for those who want to take charge of their finances and reach their life goals.” —Daisy Chan, Smart Money
“Even the savviest of business men and women argue about money when they get home. This book-- based on the simple but brilliant premise that your family finances are a business-- offers a clear process for removing emotion from money decisions. It's easy to read, sensible to implement-- and may save your relationship.” —Betty Spence, president, National Association of Female Executives
“The Family CFO is the ultimate marital aid for any couple whose domestic bliss was ever threatened by financial worries.” —Andrew Essex, executive editor, Details
“This book will bring the riches of clarity and organization to your family finances.” —Carol Evans, president and CEO of Working Mother Media
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At some point in every relationship, money becomes an issue.
It often happens when couples first consider moving in together or getting married, or when they're facing a major life decision such as buying a home or having children. Whether it happens sooner or later, though, finally taking control of your financial future is a huge step toward solidifying your relationship and realizing your shared dreams.
The Family CFO introduces couples to a personal-finance plan that turns managing your money into a romantic experience. By applying the tools and rules of the business world to minimize conflict and anxiety, you and your partner can focus on setting priorities and reaching goals instead of arguing over budgets. Then, after learning how to run the Family CFO system, you can work out personalized solutions to some of the biggest challenges couples face, including:
* Wresting control of debt
* Maintaining your lifestyle if one of you loses your job
* Deciding whether to change careers
* Arranging for one of you to stay at home with the kids.
In plain language illustrated with real couple's stories and supplemented with helpful worksheets, The Family CFO offers best family practices worthy of even the most accomplished chief financial officer. And as the authors well know and show, approaching your joint finances like a business can lead to a lifetime of shared pleasure.
Mary Claire Allvine, C.F.P., is a principal in the Chicago office of the prestigious financial planning firm Brownson, Rehmus & Foxworth Inc., where she advises high-net-worth families and senior corporate executives on investments, cash management, estate planning, charitable decisions, and tax management. She received her MBA from the University of Chicago. Frequently asked to speak, she has shared Family CFO concepts with groups nationwide.
Christine Larson has been writing for national magazines since graduating from Princeton University in 1990. Her work has appeared in the Wall Street Journal, Forbes FYI, Details
up0, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Parents, and numerous other publications. She writes frequently on business, personal finance, and careers, and has spoken and moderated panels at numerous business conferences. She also teaches writing at California State University, Sacramento.
From the Back Cover
A new way for couples to communicate about money
"As a math-phobic writer whose idea of retirement planning involves buying a lottery ticket, I wasn't sure anything could help me work up the courage to talk to my MBA-holding, derivative-trading boyfriend about our financial future. But The Family CFO is the real deal. Full of common sense and wit, it's a godsend for all of us who graduated from the never-talk-about-money school of personal finance."--Debra Pickett, Chicago Sun-Times
"What a service the authors are providing for couples! The Family CFO is a fun and valuable tool for those who want to take charge of their finances and reach their life goals."--Daisy Chan, Smart Money
"Even the savviest of business men and women argue about money when they get home. This book-- based on the simple but brilliant premise that your family finances are a business-- offers a clear process for removing emotion from money decisions. It's easy to read, sensible to implement-- and may save your relationship."--Betty Spence, president, National Association of Female Executives
"The Family CFO is the ultimate marital aid for any couple whose domestic bliss was ever threatened by financial worries."--Andrew Essex, executive editor, Details
"This book will bring the riches of clarity and organization to your family finances."--Carol Evans, president and CEO of Working Mother Media
Why is money the number one cause of tension among modern couples?
Because most haven't recognized that they're in business together. The Family CFO: The Couple's Business Plan for Love and Money is the first book that teaches partners to apply skills and talents they already use at work to their money lives so that they can stop worrying about finances and put their emotional energy where it belongs-- into making their many dreams come true.
About the Author
Christine Larson has been writing for national magazines since graduating from Princeton University in 1990. Her work has appeared in the Wall Street Journal, Forbes FYI, Details, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Parents, and numerous other publications. She writes frequently on business, personal finance, and careers, and has spoken and moderated panels at numerous business conferences. She also teaches writing at California State University, Sacramento.
Product details
- Publisher : Rodale Books
- Publication date : January 17, 2004
- Language : English
- Print length : 288 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1579547915
- ISBN-13 : 978-1579547912
- Item Weight : 1.15 pounds
- Dimensions : 6 x 0.75 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #491,121 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #5,471 in Success Self-Help
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- Reviewed in the United States on October 10, 2013I have read many finance books and we have done pretty well in following the methods, but we have had some heated discussions to come to an agreement, or not. This book is great in the approach to the discussion and division of tasks. Looking forward to the next 10 years and potential results without the conflict - or as many.
- Reviewed in the United States on February 8, 2010The CFO model is a little forced but it's a really good guide to helping couples find ways to talk about money on the emotional level. I bought this for my son who, even though he has been married 12 years, still struggles with how to handle discussions of the basics. I read the book from the library and thought it was good enough to buy a copy. I also liked the fact that it didn't get off into how you invest in the stock market which is another subject in itself. This book outlines the decisions that have to be made in daily life and sets up a good working model to deal with the emotional baggage each person in a relationship carries.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 12, 2013My husband is an account and picked out this book for it's approach for the family. We especially felt that the goals section really enabled us to plan and design our budget.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 12, 2005The concept of THE FAMILY CFO: THE COUPLE'S BUSINESS PLAN FOR LOVE AND MONEY is that couples can and should run the financial side of their homes like a business. Two good friends collaborated and wrote THE FAMILY CFO. One is a certified financial planner and a principal in a large financial planning firm, the other is a journalist whose articles have appeared in Forbes magazine, Wall Street Journal and other publications.
One of the first things THE FAMILY CFO authors do is to help couples get past the idea of not talking and sharing personal information about money. Allvine and Larson show couples that co-mingling, managing and talking about their money together is indeed necessary. They talked to real couples about their very real financial problems. As it says in the introduction -
After reading this book, you and your partner will know how to:
**Make effective financial decisions together without tension or arguments.
**Reduce the time it takes to run your finances.
**Use money as a tool to help you define your long-term vision and set goals, bringing you closer as partners and moving your relationship forward.
The charts, worksheets, resources and retirement information in THE FAMILY CFO is invaluable. If you know a couple getting married be sure to give them a copy of this book along with that bottle of good wine.
I grew up in a home where my mother never knew how much money my father made. She received a weekly allowance to run the house. When I was married the whole of it was about finance. We never had enough money and we were bogged down in debt. We pulled in opposite directions and never resolved anything. I wish THE FAMILY CFO: THE COUPLE'S BUSINESS PLAN FOR LOVE AND MONEY had been available then.
There is much information for singles also. There are great finance resources and web sites. Chapter 5, The Investment Manager, page 84 starts "Never invest in something you don't understand." Those who want to understand investments and investment jargon should definately read this book.
Highly Recommended.
Vannie(~.~)
Work & Family @ BellaOnline.com
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- Reviewed in the United States on December 1, 2008The target audience for this book is probably the business person who is not currently in the best habits of discussing money at home. The CFO metaphor goes a little far for my taste. While cute, and a great place to start conversation, the authors stretch the metaphor too far. They use a lot of language about business finance that may not be familiar, or comfortable, for the average household. While its advice is sound, and the book's "heart" is in the right place, I found the language and metaphor a little difficult to digest. David Bach's "Smart Couples Finish Rich: 9 Steps to Creating a Rich Future for You and Your Partner" has a very similar approach, but I found used layman's terms to better effect to make a discussion of finance less scary for a household.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 29, 2004This well-written book provides a clear and logical framework for couples to discuss finances and money management without so much of the emotion that often accompanies this subject. Probably every couple will find an example in the book to whom they can relate. And Allvine and Larson give us the tools (the spreadsheets) needed to put their advice into action. Those who want to explore a given topic, such as retirement planning or investing, will want to turn to additional sources, but everything you need to build a foundation of good financial planning and management is here. Perhaps the best feature of the book is the way it's written; the authors present their information in way that's easy for the financial lay person to understand without talking down to their readers. This would be a great gift for any couple just starting out, yet it's equally helpful for couples, such as my husband and me, who have been married several years and haven't really nailed money management. By the way, much of the information in the book would be helpful to anyone managing personal finances, single as well as married. Whether you want to get started on the right foot or undo poor money management habits, this book is a helpful guide.